Gerald Monk, Ph.D

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Narrative Mediation

Conflict Mediation

Narrative mediation is an innovative conflict resolution paradigm that is a revolutionary departure from the traditional problem-solving, interest-based model of resolving disputes. Based upon a postmodern, social constructionist philosophy, narrative mediation views conflict as arising within cultural contexts that have a direct bearing on how parties construct their perceptions of a particular event. A narrative mediation approach encourages the conflicting parties to reach understanding and resolution through a deep understanding of the shared personal and cultural narratives underlying the conflict. This new conflict-resolution methodology is a powerful resource for mediators and facilitators seeking to address intransigent problem-saturated conflicts. 
 
Workshops:
  • Forty Hour mediation training
  • Introduction to Narrative mediation
  • Advanced Workshop on Narrative Mediation
  • Managing Difficult Relationships and Difficult Conversations
  • Narrative Interventions for Collaborative Practices
  • Working with Multi-Party Disputes
  • Restorative Justice/Restorative Practices
  • Mediation and Conflict Resolution in Health Care
  • Workshop on Couples and Conflict

 
Forty Hour or 5 day Basic Mediation Training 
This is a generic introductory mediation training preparing for couple, family, and community mediation.  
Participants will study: 
Styles of relating in conflict 
Culture and conflict 
Responding to difficult conversations 
De-escalating skills 
Non-defensive responding 
Initiating to a difficult conversation 
Narrative theory practices 
Coaching Systems change 
 
Introduction to Narrative Mediation (Two Day training) 
Narrative mediation is a culturally focused practice that is based upon the notion that our lives are shaped by the stories that people tell about us and by the stories that we tell ourselves. The goal of the narrative mediator is to co-author stories that highlight strengths and competencies, rather than conflict. It helps people separate themselves from conflict-saturated stories and gives them the opportunity to re-author relationships in more peaceful, cooperative, and respectful ways. From this alternative position, the resolution of conflict can often happen much more smoothly and effectively than in traditional problem-solving approaches. 
 
The two-day workshop will include a mixture of lecture, small group activities, discussion and participants will view a live demonstration of the narrative method with a conflicted couple. 
 
Participants attending this workshop will learn about: 
 
    * some commonly held assumptions that impact people in conflict. 
    * the ideas that underpin a narrative approach to resolving conflict. 
    * the practices that underlie narrative ideas such as externalizing conversations, relative influence questioning, mapping the effects, and constructing  
       alternative stories.                
    * how to help people separate themselves from the divisiveness of a dispute and create shared meaning. 
    * opening new possibilities within the midst of a conflict. 
    * how to acknowledge the cultural influences that impact the parties in conflict.  
 
Advanced Workshop on Narrative Mediation (Two Day training) 
This advanced two-day narrative mediation workshop is designed for people who have already had training and experience in narrative approaches to mediation, and therapeutic interventions using a narrative metaphor for change. The workshop also caters for experienced mediators who are familiar with postmodern approaches to conflict resolution. 
 
The workshop explicitly focuses upon: 
 
    * Applying techniques for immobilizing problem-saturated narratives 
    * Exploring practices that build collaborative narratives 
    * Utilizing strategies that assist in sustaining cooperation, collaboration and peacemaking 
    * Mediating and resolving conflict with multi-party disputes and group conflict 

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